Thursday, April 29, 2010

Asperger's Syndrome


Curt Schilling's Wife Writes About Son's Asperger's Syndrome

I know people with this syndrome. Bright, beautiful children, often misunderstood and misdiagnosed. Take a moment to read about it and realize that 'difficult child' in your life may not be trying to irritate you. Sadly, it seems teachers are the least tolerant of these children and they suffer greatly in school, at least the children I know. God bless these children.

Le Fleur de Lys too: Mark Wahlberg, good Catholic moral example.


Le Fleur de Lys too: Mark Wahlberg, good Catholic moral example.

I've heard this before, and I am glad to pass this along. I was not a fan of Marky Mark, but I have seen Mark Wahlberg in a number of acting roles over the years where I liked his performances. He is a good Catholic role model for those in the performance arts, well any ambitious career-oriented soul. It seems he could have made much more money and had more recognition had he made other choices. Good for MW, choosing carefully and heeding the advice of his confessor. If I wasn't a fan already I'd be one now!

Tuesday, April 27, 2010

A Debbie Macomber Contest

MaryBennett: A Debbie Macomber Contest

Click on the link! I just had to pass this one on from Sweet Mary!

CVS Cheese crackers


Best baked cheese crackers? We rank the house brands

Follow the link!! I'm adding this for you bargain shoppers out there, especially those of you who shop CVS for bargains!! Also, my eldest daughter adores Cheez-it crackers, hopefully she will notice my post and indulge herself!!

Incidentally I snagged this photo from the article I linked to.

Monday, April 26, 2010

A look at some young adult fiction


I have a mission to read many of the young adult books in our local library. Being a voracious reader myself, and always lacking for time to read, I have found the young adult books fill a void in my life. I started reading them to know what to recommend to teenagers and other parents at the library. Then I found they fill a nice place in my life, a quick read that is usually fulfilling. Most of what I've read has been well done.

Well, let me qualify that a bit. I prefer to read classics. I love books that make you think while telling you a story, books with depth of character, outstanding descriptions and character development, wit and clever wordplay. Most of the current books lack many of those qualities, therefore I find them to be quick reads, promptly forgotten once put down. There are notable exceptions to this observation about current bestsellers and new releases, but for the most part I'm not a fan of current fiction.

That all being said, I have taken to reading young adult books to see what the kids are reading these days. Last year I read all of the Twilight books. I enjoyed the stories, though I could not stand the writing style. Stephenie Meyer is a great story-teller who should have been given more support from her publisher. She needed better editors. By the time I read her fourth book, I was substituting words in my head to take the place of 'muttered' and 'mumbled' because she used those words so frequently. Despite the excellent story of Edward and Bella, the writing quality was so poor I am resolved to avoid further releases from this author. Her publisher did her a grave injustice.

I have also read the Maximum Ride books written by James Patterson. This is a fabulous series which opens teens to thinking about issues which they may have to face in the future, such as cloning, genetic mutation, inter-species breeding, pollution and air quality, etc. All of these issues are dealt with by the protagonists, bird-people, Max being the teen-aged leader of the flock. The writing style I found to be accessible to teens, and appropriate for the story. When compared with Ms. Meyer, Mr. Patterson is the superior writer by far, but I still found myself longing for a quality possessed by the classics. I think most people would be intrigued and drawn in to these books, and I would recommend them for anyone. There is also an excellent resource to help your teenager understand the issues more fully: http://www.max-dan-wiz.com/page/educators-1

I have read the Harry Potter books, and the Books of Pellinor, both of which I've discussed in earlier posts which I believe are still on my sidebars. They are examples of the writing style which I prefer to read. Surprisingly they are both fantasy series, a genre I never fully appreciated until reading these.

The Fetch would be categorized as a supernatural romance, like Twilight, though The Fetch is not about vampires. I read this book and was not at all sure how I felt about it upon completion. Written by Laura Whitcomb, The Fetch is about a young man, Calder, who died at nineteen and has been dead for over 300 years. His job is to escort the dying down the Aisle of the Unearthing, to Heaven. It is intriguing. He makes some choices that disturb the natural order of things, such as occupying the body of deceased man which deprives the dying man of his escort through the Aisle and condemns him to the Land of Lost Souls (purgatory or even hell perhaps). By stealing a body, Calder is able to walk the earth as an immortal trapped in a mortal (dead) man's body. By choosing to do this, Calder upsets the land of the living and the land of the dead and must go about setting things right. His reasons for committing what he sees as a dereliction of his duties and a sin against God, are love. He falls in love with a mortal woman. Of course there are many more twists to this interesting tale, my heart was not in it to begin with, as I mentioned in my earlier post. In the end the book proved interesting enough to give me pause, and to make me ditch my schoolwork in favor of reading! I think I shall have to leave this book on my nightstand, it deserves a closer look than what I gave it initially. If anyone should read it, I would be interested in your insights. While it is classified as a romance, I feel it is more of an examination of choices, consequences, humility, and yes, love.

Wednesday, April 21, 2010

What am I reading?


On my nightstand are two books. The book I'm currently reading is The Fetch by Laura Whitcomb. It is a young adult fiction book which my husband picked up for me a while back because it is a supernatural love story and he thought I'd like it. I'm reading it bits at a time because as I mentioned I am busy taking classes, and frankly, it hasn't grabbed me and made me want to ditch school for a book. But I will reserve my comments until after I'm finished. The book has an interesting premise, a little different than what I am sure you are thinking. It is NOT a vampire story!

Now for the second book on my nightstand:

I loved the first book in McGowan's "Magdalene" series called, The Expected One. It is intriguing, beautifully written, and I thoroughly enjoyed it. Therefore, I am waiting until I can immerse myself in the second book. It is a treasure waiting for me. It will be a reward to indulge myself when I have earned a brief respite from studying.

What are you reading??

Tuesday, April 20, 2010

Cold and Abandoned

I was told that my blog felt cold and abandoned by my dear friend, Mary. I believe Mary is right! Therefore, I have resolved to try and update my look, and to get back to the blog again. TBH, it is not as easy as all that. We are still trying to get back on our feet after an impossible few years, during most of that time I was actively blogging.

I think I hit a low point and abandoned the blog almost entirely :( but now I am looking towards a bright and beautiful future! Hubby is still unemployed but I feel like we are on the right track with him. I am taking classes online so I can work from home as a Medical Transcriptionist. It is a brilliant career opportunity for stay-at-home mothers. I have a friend in town who has been doing just this, as a homeschooling mother of five, for the last couple of years.

As a result, I'm entirely overburdened and busy time wise, but happy to be making progress toward a career that will enable me to contribute to the family income while not compromising our family values...Mom must be home!!!

I am going to (in all my spare time, *snort*) redesign the blog, and archive my older stuff to make room for the new. It is about time for the "new and improved" Lily and Never Fading Wood to take the place of the "Cold and Abandoned." How does that suit you, Mary?

Monday, October 19, 2009

Still Swinging!!

Life has taken me to the mat, and I'm still swinging! This has been the year of no blogging. Or very little to say the least. My beautiful daughter did go to Interlochen, and she learned quite a lot. She is currently a seventeen year old performance arts major at a college down in Westchester County of NY, much too far from her mommy! My other children are all thriving and doing well in their respective school programs. My hubby was laid off in July, so the company could move their operations to Singapore, therefore I am working two jobs to try and keep our heads above water. End result, no time to blog. Homeschool, household management, two jobs.

Admittedly, my spirits have sagged, but then I look at some of my friends and realize I have my health, my children are happy and healthy, I have more blessings than crosses. It is not always so easy to remember that, I'm working on it.

God bless!

Friday, May 22, 2009

Need some prayers!


Well, I'm surprised to realize I haven't been blogging since March. We have had much happening in our lives and it just has not been conducive to blogging.

In one of my last posts I discussed my daughter, the oldest, being accepted at Interlochen for their Summer Performing Arts Camp in ballet. This is a big thrill for us, but also a big, no HUGE expense. We have been running fundraisers to get her there, it is the sort of opportunity that a kid who is accepted just ought not to miss. It could really launch her career because the ballet intensive should vastly improve her technique in a way she just could not improve locally without many more classes. I do not usually put up photos of myself or my children, but in this instance, I will make an exception. This is my oldest child, my daughter, at a dress rehearsal for her pointe solo this year. This picture was taken while she was dancing by a very talented tenth grade photographer from her dance team.

My oldest daughter is technically in eleventh grade this year, homeschooling, so college is on the horizon for her. But, when I asked her what she would like to do for her senior year, she said she would like to go to right into college. Being a homeschool student, she has the opportunity to take the GED exam and go this fall. She has been signed up to take the GED and hopefully we will be packing her off to Sarah Lawrence (her first choice school) this fall. She was late applying because we had not planned to go this route at all. She missed many deadlines, she had a list of schools that was very long. We ended up only being able to apply to three schools, one is the local community college. Please pray for her to do well on the exam, and for her to be able to attend Sarah Lawrence this fall.

In other news, my husband will be laid off from work in June. This was not a surprise, my husband has been seeking other employment for the last year and a half. We've not had any success. There are likely many reasons for this, not the least of which is my husband does not have a bachelor's degree. The good thing is with this layoff being due to his company sending the manufacturing process overseas, he will qualify for job retraining. The bad news is that this will force him into unemployment and us onto benefits and even then, we may struggle financially. This may have me going into the workforce as a full time employee; if he works he will lose all his benefits. We also have an opportunity to open a restaurant here in town, but in this economy that is a bit risky, so we are weighing our options, trying to figure out what is best for our family and our future.

With all of this, and more stress, I've been unable to eat! Food will not stay with me. I'm losing a lot of weight, which I needed to lose, but this is not a good way to go about losing it. If I cannot start keeping food down, I will need to go to the doctor.

All of my trials, though significant this year, are nothing compared to those of my friend and fellow blogger, Mary, who has been diagnosed with stage four cancer. Please pray for all of these intentions, and I will try to get back to some positive posting very soon.

God bless, you are all in my prayers.